Well, that sounds like a lot of- [He pauses. Is he still not cursing? No, it's fine, this time it's for making a point, and if it looks like he's starting to intimidate her he'll cut back.] -a whole lotta bullshit.

Look, what kind of 'selfish' are we talking? Not calling someone back, cutting people off in traffic? You can't be kind all the time, believe me. Sometimes you're just going to be selfish. That's just how people are.